Episode 2

 Whatever , I am writing today are lessons . I learnt during my seven months in Bangalore. A student away from home for the first time , it sounds scary for some but fun for others . If I think how does it feel ? The answer is it’s a roller coaster . You must be thinking Whyy ?? I am kind of not that home sick person who feels like meeting people . Moving on , the learning outcome :

1) Not always you need to be strong as there will be times when you would want to cry out 

2) Understanding the concept of independent which doesn’t mean who can’t lean on someone for support 

3) Some decisions may sound little too much in beginning but let the time play its role my friend. One of the examples is doing long distance relationship with my bestie . 

4) A good guy is the one who just can take your mood swings but still doesn’t complain . The one who just wants to fulfil your every wish . In spite of the fact that it’s mostly not possible. 

5) Communication is the key to any relationship be it boyfriend and girlfriend or parents . 

6) It’s easy to blame your situation for any worse thing that happens but finding a way out of it is the need .

7) You don’t need to meet daily with your partner just listening to each other’s voice do wonders .

8) It’s difficult to love someone rather Hate can spread like plague in life but love takes time with no judgements involved.

9) In school , I used to fear it I fail but college teachers you to just prioritise about gaining knowledge rather than grabbing marks . 

10) The anxiety before the exams is common but with each passing semester, I have learnt to calm down . Not make a fuss about getting one question wrong as at least I got to know where my understanding stands 

11) College is more than just academics but participating in clubs and committees where u learn to handle stress , pressure and have responsibilities on your shoulder's.

12) Coming to a new state helped me micro manage things like weekend outings , different friend groups to maintain a boundary line in every relationship. 

THE JOURNEY IS TOO LONG , TO LEARN , EXPERIMENT AND GAIN NEW FRIENDS BE IT 2,000 KMS AWAY . 


 



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