Episode 1
Recently , I lost my maternal grandfather due to health reasons . The only thing one realises is that we tend to wait and make million promises of staying them or meeting them soon . The fact it’s just a delusion that we live in each day.
The image comes in my mind immediately of just promising him that during new year vacation I will come and stay with them for few days . Eat grandma’s handmade food that is indeed the best . But the twist in this tale is one random day , I decided to call my father to just talk about the day and his voice sounded little hesitant. I knew that grandpa wasn’t well but there was scope of recovery . He was gonna come home in few days . My mom was planning to stay at their place to help but that afternoon a call came from hospital saying that he is no more .
Losing him for everyone was a shock . In a bit , my grandma lost her partner . The fact that they used to live alone in Chandigarh. My mom and her sisters lost their dad whom they saw two days back talking to them . How we tend to plan for future . It was my grandma and grandpa’s 50th anniversary in May that they were celebrating in a grand manner . The dress code was being decided and how everyone will come together and just celebrate. Alas ! God had some other plans in hand which was definitely a contrast to this .
In December, I went to Chandigarh during new years , I could see myself walking to the same room with an emotion that he come out and greet me with love . Asking about my health, how was my flight .
Through this incident the only thing I get is that never wait for the right moment just go and make memories as life is too short hesitate , postpone plans and decide whom to love and when to meet . Just live to the fullest as there’s no time to hold on grudges for anyone or anything . This grudges will ultimately mean regrets that one could have just talked about it and solve it . TALK OUT EVERYTHING BEFORE ITS TOO LATE .
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